Is he serious or wants just sex?

one thing your messing up here, is telling him you have a b/f, rather than just letting him know that you date, and at this point no one serious, because you haven't found the right guy yet, and so you are not in a serious relationship, that way he won't think that this isn't a one night stand on your part, since you brought it up, so make sure you establish the fact you don't have a b/f, or you will get him thinking your a player, k? about what kind of relationship he is looking for,is something the two of you will have to discuss, and sometimes it is better to listen to what info he offer's and respond, and see where he goes with it...but, i think this will help if you clear up the fact about having another guy, or playing hard to get, because it's one thing to be' cool', and that's good, you go out and have fun, and don't play games, right? and quite another to be 'too cool', and not get the guy at all, because i don't know too many gentlemen that will play that game..and the guys that do, we think of as playing us because they are, and don't think that men don't think the same..